The Way

By the roadway in the wilderness He leads me,
Rivers in the desert will I see
Heaven and earth will fade
But His word will still remain
He will do something new today

God will make a way
when there seems to be no way
He works in ways we cannot see
He will make a way for me
He will be my guide
Hold me closely to His side
With love & strength for each new day
He will make a way
He will make a way

This song came in mind after thinking over & over about what is the best decision I could do now. I am at one of the biggest crossroads in my life. Each road will take me to two different places. As way leads to way I doubt that I shall ever come back. Suddenly Robert Frost's poem comes in mind haha. Gets stuck in my head every time I have to make a very important decision.

As if to comfort me, one of the most beautiful song came in mind. Feelings of gratitude fills me to know that He will make a way. Thank you Lord Jesus.

Do Not Be Conformed To This World

Have you ever feel like you don't fit in? I have, many many times.

I am far from perfect so I feel so blessed when I think of my family & friends who love me just as I am, and not for what I can do or what I can give them. This is unconditional love. God bless them. These are the people that matter aren't they? Those who were with you even during your lowest moments, who listen, who cares to ask, who cares to know how you're doing. 

That is also why we can so easily take them for granted. 

And then there are groups of acquaintances who demand for things. Why do we tend to want to please them more? Is it because we can only earn their attention or cooperation by pleasing them? It is quite difficult especially if they are your bosses, colleagues, etc. 

Well, these 3 months I have spent with a new group of co workers and superior has shown me that to respect myself, I need to set a clear boundary. The reason why I have been unhappy is because I keep on giving them "my share of spare oil" for my personal need for the long journey ahead. The result is one tired and unhappy girl. I have read somewhere - to be happy is to know your boundaries, to keep your haversack to yourself but help others with their boulder. 

It is still not east but I still strive to know more about my boundaries, what to carry and what burdens that I am unnecessarily been carrying with me. 

Lastly, we are called to follow Jesus, not to conform to the world. 

May the peace of the Lord be with us all.

Cheers!

Just a Thought

Today I read a post by a friend on her Facebook wall that read, "Happiness is when what you think, say & do is in peace with each other". It grabbed my attention strongly but only now I know exactly why. 

I am not always truthful about how I feel. I may be thinking one and acting in another way. Mainly because there's a lot of inner struggle within. At times I can't make peace  with myself. It's hard to forgive others when they hurt you, especially when that person is special. Because you know it matters that much to you. However I think it's even harder to forgive myself for letting myself down, at least that is the case for me. 

Even more so I have too much of an ego to admit that I need anyone else. I often tell myself that it's okay to be alone. That I don't need my Team to be my friends. Then why the emptiness inside?

Now I admit, I can see it. I have left many things unspoken. Swept many issues under the bed but now it's all come back to haunt me. I understand now it's because I did not give these little hurts time to heal but instead I covered the wounds before it could heal properly. 

I want to confess that I am hurt. Many times. I even let myself be hurt by people whI don't even care about me. As much as I hate what's happening to me now, i can't complain much because I've hurt someone else the same way. Maybe it's karma getting back at me :(

I do wish to be more vocal about my feelings. May the Lord be with me through my weak moments. 

Take Courage

Success is never final, 


failure is never fatal. 


It's the courage that counts. - John Wooden

Amid the exhaustion, mixed feelings of frustration, confusion, excitement, gratitude, hope, & once in a while, loneliness, there is one more feeling that resurfaces every now & then, the feeling that something died in me. I can never revert back to the me back then, but hard as it is, I know I have to reassure myself that some things lost may never come back again, however something else will come in it's place.

Every mistake, every wrong move made is proof that I am but human. All I need very much now is courage to do things.

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It is Expected

He did say that in this world we are to face many challenges. We have been warned beforehand haven't we?

In today's sermon the priest said that religion does not promise us a trouble-free life, but it does help us handle it. Even Jesus had his share of troubles while he was on earth.

In this life, we can expect troubles & problems but He has promised to be here with us, & indeed we may not feel so all the time, but remember the "Footprints in the Sand". It is easy to "believe" when everything goes well for us, but the challenge is when things go out of our control. That is the time we really need to remember all that He has done for us.

May we persevere in living life with God in mind. 

Nevertheless, Still a Part of Me

It is that time again when I have come to a crossroad of thoughts - which should I believe? which should I follow?

I have allowed my feelings to control my actions & the result is far from good. It seems that all "good things" that I have worked so hard for have gone to waste. But no, that is not entirely true, in the aspect of growth. All experiences good & bad make up our character & personality. It is true I have wasted much time. I hate to but I must confess, I have done many many foolish things. I don't even know why I do the things I do sometimes.

There seem to be a fine line between acknowledging a weakness in us & dwelling upon it. I believe recognizing & acknowledging our weaknesses followed-up by effort for improvement is the key to progress. Shortcuts always seem the best - camouflage is usually the way we go. But when we do that, hiding a part of us from everyone, it sometimes become a cause for insecurity, also linked closely to fear. Fear of our weaknesses being exposed. Sometimes what we fear most is not even real, if not, very much exaggerated.

Today I experienced a similar situation. I have some issues with how things are mismanaged very badly for the past several months, & to return the "favour", I finally became rebellious. It is true that things should be far better, but now I know that no matter how dire the situation was, I lost the battle when I neglected my part. Imagine both parties not doing their part. It is just sad. I have been reflecting a lot since yesterday night, calling to God for help & I can say He definitely heard me.

Today I was led to expose my many weaknesses - to someone I dislike. It wasn't easy at all I assure you. At that moment it was horrifying! Now I feel strangely at peace. Throughout the conversation, both parties were arguing & it seems that both reject the other's ideas & response. I don't know how, but it turned out okay. I now have a new resolve - to refocus & to fix what I have neglected, regardless of circumstances. It makes sense to think that way because the only thing that we can control is how we react (overused saying). Overnight change is nearly impossible but with training, discipline & God in mind, I want to take one step at a time.

Another note to self is - No matter how hard we try, we will never be perfect. So maybe it is misleading to try & achieve perfection all the time. No one is perfect but He. My wish now is for progress. To progress from where I am to where He is, even just a little. Let not my pride be in the way any longer.

I just need to have a little faith. Hope is renewed yet again & I can wish for no more today but to share the good news :)

May peace be with us.

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A Message

Just the other day, I was feeling down over a lost friendship, that's when I saw this -


"Don't worry about the people from your past... There is a reason why they didn't make it to your future."


It struck me then, & I'm glad I saw what I saw. I then was reminded why it didn't work out. Sad but true. Special it was our memories but I'd keep it at that, nothing more. Thanks for the memories, it was bittersweet in a good way. 


Let God be the center of my life, as the passage I read today says - 

I should like you to have your mind free from all worry...

...give your undivided attention to the Lord"

                                                                - 1 Corinthians 7:32, 35

Peace be with you :)

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